Part of our home school curriculum is reading and memorizing scripture. I really am being blessed by going through Hebrews 11 verse by verse with a different one each week. We’re on Hebrews 11:3, which shows that even Genesis 1 is in Hebrews. What was in the Old Testament is consistently taught in the New Testament. The Bible is internally consistent.
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Is it bad that I pay my children to read the Bible? I give them the money once they’ve read it through. 25c per book. The oldest, age 14 and 12, have completed it once. The 2nd time they go through it they have to take notes so that it’s not just speed reading. (My oldest read it in 3 months straight through, and that’s okay, but I want him to really pay attention next time).
I do read to the kids but have not been consistent about this. I know as a kid I was NOT read the bible at home. I lived with an aunt and uncle for four years, and they read those blue Bible Stories books you see at the doctor’s office, they must have had the set. When I moved back in with my dad at age 10 I didn’t even get the Bible stories, so my kids definitely are ahead of me at the same age but I want to do more. They do memorize verses for a bible club, we’ve worked on those together week after week, singing verses in the car and repeating them. I know I could work more with them. I just hope they are getting the Word in deep.
We speak about God often, and when in a discipline situation, we talk about the behavior, if it is wrong or right, and why. We do use the word “sin” and the child asks the parent or other child for forgiveness and then goes to pray about things with God, confessing sins and asking forgiveness. When I do something sinful, (like react in great anger or speak to my children in a way that is out of line) I make sure to ask for forgiveness too.
My husband and I pray with the kids daily. Daily. Meals, before bed, and at other opportune times. When we read scripture, we often include prayer.
I know I could do better, I could bring prayer and the Word in more. I hope I am not neglectful of my duty to really teach my children about Christ, the Father, and the Holy Spirit. They learn a lot at our church, but I believe it is best for us as parents to teach our children the truth in the Bible.
Pyromaniacs blogger Dan Phillips hit what I needed to read in a comment of a recent post on Charismatics…all credit to him and NOT to me, but I have to quote this comment completely:
“Everyone has good days, bad days. Sometimes you feel close to God, sometimes you don’t. The feelings are not God talking to you. There is no Scriptural warrant to turn your eyes away from the (hel-lo?) Word of God to reading tea-leaves, feelings, chicken-livers, or events. That message was so clear that an admitted non-Christian emailed me that he got it.
So, suffering Christian who is walking with the Lord to the best of your knowledge of Scripture, your experiences of trials and treachery and pain are not God telling you that He has rejected you. Look to Jesus, look to God’s word. Jesus saves, signs and portents don’t. Stand on Him and His Word.
And, despairing Christian who knows the same gloom and darkness of Spirit — in spite of walking in faith and obedience — which David, Luther, Spurgeon and countless others knew, those feelings are not God telling you He has rejected you. Look to Christ, look to God’s word. Jesus saves, He is what matters — not how saved or loved you feel.
God rejected Job’s comforters then, and He rejects them now. Supposed Christians will tell you (as you see here) that your tragedies are some sort of extra-biblical revelation, or that (as here) if you admit your suffering aloud there’s something wrong with you, and maybe you need drugs.
The truth: you can suffer while loved by God, and while in the will of God (1 Peter 1:6; 2:20-25; 4:16-19). Fix your hope completely on God’s mercy at Christ’s return (1 Peter 1:13). Your trials will turn to joy and glory (2 Corinthians 4:16-18).
Never lose sight of Him.”
Good post too….
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged berean, Bible, bible study, candy, Christianity, church, error, learning, pastors, seeker friendly, spiritual formation, spiritual growth, truth, unhealthy on August 17, 2010| Leave a Comment »
Switching from a Purpose Driven church with entertainment to a bible teaching church may have a few effects, one of which initially is boredom. This may seem unholy and wrong to admit, but it has happened. We felt it in our house. A dry feeling. But like eating healthy food for once as a normal way of life rather than just once in a while, old habits are hard to break.
Exercise and eating healthy will be difficult for someone coming from terrible habits. We want to drift back to the soda, we want to taste the sugary sweet candy. We want to have french fries and greasy hamburgers with lots of cheese. Why? We’re addicted. What do bad eating and exercise habits get us? Diabetes, heart problems, early death. We become fat and unable to enjoy life.
This is what happened to us at the previous church. We enjoyed a LOT of cool programs. Our kids were entertained. We felt we were growing in the faith. Yes, we did grow, but looking back, the times we did grow were when we insisted to study the bible verse by verse in small group. There were some messages by the pastors that carried truth, so we did learn from those. However, much was social, much was wrong teaching. We ignored the problems for a while. It caught up to us. We began to see the problems.
When we opened our ears and looked around, we heard the pastors preaching things that were not biblical. Suddenly, the candy coating didn’t feel good anymore. We realized the illness in our faith. We were not being fed often enough. Yes, there was service, we were served in many ways. But the teaching was in error just as often as it was in truth. We allowed the error to go on when we were blind to it, but once we saw it we realized we had to escape.
We eventually landed in a church where the bible is preached verse by verse. We started out with some initial joy, because our worries about the former church were confirmed. Still, we missed some of the trappings. We missed the social time, many people were new to us. We missed the upbeat music a great deal. Still, the true spiritual food was making us feel better because our spiritual bodies were getting the right nutrition. Now my children recognize the former church for what it is, and they do not want to go back to the candy. We don’t either.
Of course, we listen and are very careful, we do not want to believe the pastor without checking things out. It’s kind of like reading the labels. We want to know what’s going on at the church, what they are truly about. Is the spiritual food healthy and true? If it is, then we will see growth and not experience the physical illness. The hard work put in (not works for salvation mind you, but the study of God’s word and prayer, the service to the body, and the support of those who go out and preach to others…or even maybe us going out some day when we’re prepared…these things are the hard things), will result in a healthy Christian perspective. Staying on guard is important, reading for ourselves. After all, it’s supposed to be our faith we’re working out right? And as time goes on, what was previously boring is actually very exciting. Scriptural study is not some mundane thing, it’s a wonderful joy to hear and read truth.
note: If I am saying something wrong by winging it, PLEASE let me know here. I know these are my human thoughts, not God’s words.
I ran across a woman who went to another church in our area. She and her husband began to get uncomfortable with small group studies, and also with some of their church teachings. They thought, after their eyes were opened to the misuse of the bible in these studies and in teachings from the pulpit, that discussing it in small group would be a good idea. From what the woman said, they were not trying to cause division but were attempting to point out errors as they had great faith in their church leadership. They brought things up to the leadership, as well as continuing to share their fears with the group. They were shocked the day they were asked to leave their church.
She said that in their next church it was five years before they really could trust enough to serve. They had been shunned by many in their former church, many who had been good friends before the issues were brought up. Some later did apologize to them, and some have left over time.
We had a different experience in that we did not share our issues with many people. We did tell some things to a few friends, and we’ve known a very small number who have left. We do feel though, had we been open to our small group or to more of the leadership we would eventually have been asked to be quiet or leave.
Being shunned hurts. When a person begins to understand how leadership teaches from men’s work rather than from the bible, or uses many methods rather than relying on God’s word and the Holy Spirit, it’s a hard thing to decide what to do. Do you share with others? Will you find someone who understands what your are saying? Will you be accused of being divisive? Will you be asked to leave?
I believe it’s of utmost importance that each person who encounters poor or bad teaching pray first. Spend time thinking how to handle things. Then, don’t worry about the consequences to you so much as what will your voice in this accomplish? Is it about getting even? If it’s about you and your pride, you really have to pause. If it’s about trying to restore people to truth and good doctrine, and you are hoping to help others in the long run, then move forward in wisdom. There are times for open mouths, and times for closed mouths.
We weren’t perfect as we proceeded, but we did try very hard to do the right thing. Looking back, I can see areas we could have improved upon BUT in the long run, I believe we did the right thing overall.
I feel for this woman I met who has gone through such pain in her former church. I pray for other men and women out there just trying to point out the errors and do the right thing.
It happens to pastors too. This article is a great resource.
Our new church has worked out well so far. Our family, having come from a “missional” and “transformational” church with a pastor who is angry when challenged has needed to heal. We’ve really enjoyed coming to church just to hear the bible preached. The church we attend preaches straight through on most every Sunday. We’ve needed this. No pressure to join a small group every week, no projects and slick presentations. No recycling of themes just in case we’re too dumb to get the message. It’s all about the bible, all about study.
There recently was a reminder that we cannot just be hearers only though, but doers, and there are churches being planted. There are missionaries to support. Most of all, there are needs in the body, and that seems to be the biggest way service is done. Prayer is very important too, with prayers in service several times, several times a week we get a prayer/praise email with real messages from the body. This little church takes prayer very seriously.
Verse by verse, it’s a theme that goes beyond the pulpit. We’re still in John, it’s been over a year, and we’re not halfway through yet in the weekly services. In bible study we’re going through Revelation. The pastor teaching this has been doing it for weeks and we’re still on the very first verses. It’s refreshing, some may think it’s boring, but to me it’s great to get all the background. We don’t attend on Sunday night, it is a service for the body. They get together for a lesson in proverbs. Next they divide into groups such as teens, a bible club for the younger children, and something for the adults. I know special choirs practice also on Sunday night. I also know something goes on Wednesday night, we haven’t investigated. There are also small groups meeting everywhere. There is also a class in the week called the “bible institute” and I believe it’s a very in depth class in the bible but also possibly including church history. I’m a bit fuzzy though it’s brought up every once in a while.
This church is also a place for Deaf people. There is an interpreter for everything in the service, actually there are several. They trade off, and will interpret every word spoken from the pulpit. If needed in a bible study, they are there too. If a song is played with no words, the words of the song are still up on the screen in front or a bible passage is printed.
I believe some time our next step needs to be getting into more in this church. We have avoided small group. Part of this is because our schedule is busy, however, it’s always been busy before and at our former churches (since we began as married people) we’ve always been in a small group. However, I recall the important thing to me was not the fellowship alone, but bible study. I do think that was a need in the churches I attended before. I did need the fellowship and friendships before, but small group was where I tried my hardest to push bible study. I know now I did this because I needed to be fed somewhere, I wasn’t getting it from the pulpit like I should (not that missional/transformational churches don’t ever preach from the bible, they do and you can get SOME food there…but not nearly what I needed to grow). The church we attend now has a pulpit rich in “spiritual food.” Rich. So, I believe small group can actually be more of a social time, a time to be in fellowship, to serve one another and be served. We probably should seek this out next fall, and arrange our lives for it. We should find a group that includes kids, our kids need to get to know others in the church. I have a sneaky feeling though, that small group in this church is not like what I’ve experienced since we got a few friends together years ago and went verse by verse through John every week on our own. One was a seminary student, and we just really studied the bible…evangelized to friends we brougth with us who weren’t Christians, and enjoyed one another. No book themes, no marketing, no projects, just study.
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged abuse in church, Bible, church, expectations, fellowship, good churches, healthy churches, Jesus, sin, unhealthy churches, why is church so hard, worship on December 20, 2009| Leave a Comment »
I saw this as a search that landed someone on my blog. I do think that is an excellent question. I believe it’s there are many reasons why church is so hard.
First, sin. Obviously, people are sinners, I am a sinner, you are a sinner, and so we’re going to be hard to deal with. The church is going to be imperfect. People get their agendas and their behaviors, and it is hard to deal with them. I am hard to deal with. Do you know how many stupid thoughts I have while sitting in church? How many times I look at someone and think things about what they are wearing or how they talk? I have to constantly check myself.
Church is also hard because people are confused as to why we have church. Though I believe it’s clear we are there to worship God and edify the body, everyone has expectations beyond this. Some of our hopes are that we’ll get all our needs met in church. Then we sit there and don’t express those needs to anyone, and exactly how can that happen? We have expectations for people to be our friends. We have expectations that we’ll feel a certain way at Christmas or on any given Sunday. We have expectations that the pastor will do someone this way or that. We forget our fallibility and don’t always understand what’s being taught. There are basics churches should have, some do and some don’t, and when our expectations are not reached, we can be disappointed.
Some churches are bad, period. This is not just your ordinary sin of each human here, it’s churches that are unhealthy and destructive. I used tbe an RA on campus in a dorm, and we had to watch for groups that came in with cult like tendencies. They would manipulate and shut a person off from their families. Girls were breaking up with long time boyfriends because the boyfriend didn’t join. They were being drilled and harrassed by the cult members, never alone. It’s not just obvious cults though, there is abuse in church, there is twisting of scripture, power struggle, control, pastors who cheat on their wives within their congregation, and many other things that happen to erode trust. Evil is everywhere and will find it’s way right into the church, right into pulpits.
Waiting, it’s hard waiting. Those of us in God’s family are still waiting for the return of Christ. This isn’t always easy. Sure, we have been given the bible and are told how to live. We can love our Lord and worship Him, and we can at times feel near because of the Holy Spirit. However, we are not physically with Jesus. We don’t see Him with our eyes. We have to wait. We meet together every Sunday, and each Sunday it’s another week we have to wait. We get accustomed to this life, and sometimes even forget we’re not made only for this life. We get immeshed in the struggles here, and the waiting and hope is on the back burner. It can be a faith stretcher to wait. We can become complacent.
Persecution, that can make church very hard. I am in the United States, so I don’t have the real persecution of my brothers and sisters around the world. We have a shiny building, we have cars to get us there. We have bibles, many of us have more bibles than people in our homes. We are free to preach from the bible as it is written here (so far). Sure, we may get teased by media or others who don’t believe, but real persecution? We actually have to TRY to get persecuted by protesting an abortion clinic or by doing door to door missions or maybe setting up a Christmas display in public somewhere. However, in some countries, to be a part of a church means death. It means abuse. It means the government and your neighbors are watching you. It means services can be raided and you can go to jail. It means if you are teaching the bible as written, you can be punished for a long time.
Yes, my friends, church is hard. But, I’d rather have the church than try hanging alone in the world. Why? Because I really believe in Christ, and so do others who are in the churches I’ve attended. We are family. We belong together. We have to deal with sin, and we have to work on making it better together. If it’s right, the preaching is good, the fellowship is good, the church can be a wonderful place. If I am willing to reach out, if I am there to worship, there to join my fellow Christians, it can be very good.