One person we know embedded in our former church recently wrote online that he was disappointed with a meeting after asking for prayer days before, and his writings implied a similar situation to ours. My husband basically sent messages back and forth to him, and it seems he may have similar issues we have had. We have found that giving a little information and letting people discover the truth turns out better than plunking down the whole thing. We have not told this person really anything that actually went on in our situation as he’s not normally in our circle. In fact, if he knows we left it’s because of people talking. This person is very visible in the church, so if he and his family were to begin complaining it would not be easy to ignore. If they left, it would be obvious. We are praying for thiem in this time, though we know only that there is something going on, and the man seems to acknowledge it’s important to “dig” when looking at a church, there’s not much more to it than that. We can assume nothing. It is my hope that this family is aware of the problems, is willing to confront, and willing to fight in God’s timing. I pray it makes a difference, that someone will listen. If it’s anything like our situation, they are likely being encouraged to stay by the same pastor who wanted us to stay and fight as long as we could. Their kids are younger, so the issues with the youth ministry and camps is not there for them. Pray for this particular family, that they will see the truth about our former church and will follow God’s leading for them.